on training oneself to be a better s-type

things one may do outside of a dynamic to prepare for one's future life serving a D-type.


  • wake at the same time every day
    • get out of bed immediately upon waking
    • meditate on your intentions and on your goals as an s-type
  • have set routines for personal care and personal growth
    • personal hygiene, exercise, journaling, practicing spirituality, etc.
  • drink plenty of water per day
  • eat balanced meals
  • go to bed at the same time every day
    • set up modes or detoxes to block distracting apps during resting hours
    • use do-not-disturb to limit notifications and put screens in grayscale
    • perhaps even keep all devices in a separate room from your sleeping area
  • practice silence
    • doing activities with no audiobooks, videos, podcasts, music, etc.
      • chores and housework
      • meals
      • commuting
    • extended periods of not speaking unless directly spoken to
      • keeping responses thoughtful but concise
  • practice submissive poses
    • modify if necessary for any physical disabilities
  • reading. lots of reading.
    • not just one genre, but a variety of genres
    • not just fiction or nonfiction, but both
    • practice parsing out information from texts and rewording to be concise but clear and accurate
  • learn various service skills
    • housework and yardwork
    • cooking and dining
    • automotive care
    • personal grooming
    • more niche services
  • follow a strict schedule daily
    • practice breaking it to offer immediate service
  • practice not using furniture, if physical ability allows
    • either being up and moving, or resting on the floor
  • remember your future D-type may structure life differently; practice adapting to changes

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